<p>One study of couples undergoing counseling found 30 percent of the wives and 18 percent of the husbands unhappy in the first year of marriage. More wives than husbands had been unhappy from the very beginning. After the first several years, halfs were unhappy, especially the women. »A larger percentage of wives than husbands (14 percent compared to 4 percent) had expressly turned negative. For these wives, despair or nopeiessnisss was the main theme running through their responses.« Emile L.